Step 1 - Let's Have Fun Together

Communication starts in joy.

When parents think about helping their child talk, the focus often goes straight to words. What sound should they say? How do we encourage speech?

But communication does not begin with words.
It begins with connection.

Before children learn to speak, they learn how it feels to be with another person. When interaction feels safe, enjoyable, and predictable, children are more likely to engage, attend, and eventually communicate. This emotional foundation is where communication truly starts.

What research tells us?

Research shows that early social connection plays a key role in later language development. Children who smile back, respond to interaction, and enjoy shared moments tend to develop stronger communication skills over time.

These early connections support attention, learning, and interaction. In other words, the way children connect with people in the early years helps predict how well they will communicate later. This is why speech therapy does not start with drilling words. It starts with building joy and trust in interaction.

What activities can you do?

Connection grows through simple, joyful play. Peekaboo and tickle games are a great place to start. Pause before the reveal and wait for your child’s reaction so the moment feels shared and exciting.

Movement games also build connection. Try running together and saying “ready, set, go”, sliding down together, or using swings while adding playful sounds like “wee” or “up”. These activities help your child feel regulated and engaged with you.

Toy play works best when it is interactive. Roll cars back and forth, push them together, and model simple sounds like “vroom” or “go”. Stay face to face when you can, and keep the play light and fun rather than instructional.

Follow your child’s lead and enjoy the moment together. There is no need to ask questions or prompt speech. When play feels good, connection grows naturally.

Watch the YouTube Series and Download the Free Guide

In this video, we walk you through Step 1 of the 10 Steps to Talking and show how connection through play supports early communication. Watch below to see real examples and learn how to bring this strategy into your everyday routines.

Next: Step 2 - I Know You're There